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The Power Of Reading For Gifted Children: Advanced Readers And Social Emotional Learning

The power of reading and story for all children is undeniable. The power of reading for gifted children is extraordinary. Even if your gifted child is not an advanced reader, there is an important place for reading in social-emotional learning and development. 



All this month in The Learners Lab, we are focused on the power books and reading for gifted and twice-exceptional children. 

How To Help Advanced Readers

It is not unusual for a gifted child to excel in reading. Many of our kids are precociously reading early and are reading anything in their path. How do we handle this? What do we do for those kids who are reading things that they may not be ready to handle emotionally?  How do we make sure they’re still getting good books in front of them that don’t have overly sophisticated themes. 

You Do Not Have To Pre-Read Your Child’s Books

Let go of the pressure to pre-read everything your child reads. Not only is it too much pressure, it is also completely unrealistic. 

I recommend instead the following three best practices for helping an advanced reader navigate content:

  1. Be aware of what your child is reading
  2. Ask inquiry-based questions of your child about what they are reading
  3. Be available and non-judgmental in answering any questions they may have about the material they come across in their reading

Reading is actually one of the best subjects to practice being a student of your own child and practice artful questions! To help, I have put together this free packet for advanced readers.

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It includes book suggestions and a list of questions to ask your child about what they are reading.  It’s designed to help you get in the habit of asking them about what they’re reading, asking them to put themselves in their character’s shoes, and find out why they are so interested in the book.  There are open-ended questions that they can answer and thoughtfully discuss. It gives them the opportunity and the encouragement to think about what they’re reading in a more sophisticated way,

It’s OK for Advanced Readers To Read Below Their Level

I encourage you to let your child read what interests them. Even if they are an advanced reader, a book that is below their level has value, if it interests them and keeps their attention.

“Twaddle” is a concern for many homeschoolers, I know. In our house, we worry less about twaddle and more about surrounding our kids with as many books and as many language-rich resources as they can handle. Some might be silly, but all are valuable for our children. 


Homeschool Curriculum for Your Asynchronous Gifted Learner


Social-Emotional Learning Through Books

If your child has social-emotional differences, reading may be the perfect way to help them practice and learn social connections and norms. 

Reading gave my children the ability to practice thinking about how other people feel. What has been amazing to me is how a really good book with great characters can help define social emotional skills for kids who have trouble naturally doing it on their own. It’s clear to me that reading good stories has had a greater impact on their social, emotional development than anything we’ve done, including social skills therapies.

Shawna Wingert, Different By Design Learning

The Harry Potter series is a great example of this in action. This is such an obsession for so many of our quirky kiddos. I don’t think it has to do with the magic. I don’t think it has to do with the mysterious beasts. I think it’s the characters that are the key players in these books all have their own individualized needs, strengths, and weaknesses. There is one character that your child will be able to identify with, and because of that, your child will start to see the way that character interacts with others who are very different from them. They see the way the characters interact with adults and the way the adults respond.

This is often referred to as the side-by-side identification of problems. For example, my nephew was struggling with something that was going on in his personal life. He was able to talk to me about it, but he talked to me about it using the example of a friend. It is easier to say, “My friend’s been having trouble with his girlfriend” when he is having trouble with his own.

This same concept is exactly what drives social-emotional learning in reading. It’s not personal. It’s simply a conversation about a book instead of it being something specific to your child. It removes the sense of risk.

Moreover, my kids come up with some of the most incredible conversation points because of random topics they’ve come across in books. I want to encourage you to trust your kids and trust yourself. Don’t overthink this.

It’s good to let them read. It’s that simple.


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Raising Lifelong Learners Podcast #154: The Power Of Reading For Gifted Children: Advanced Readers And Social Emotional Learning

In this episode, Colleen and Shawna discuss the unique role reading and story can play in the life of a gifted child. They share information on how to help an advanced reader and the role of books in social-emotional learning for gifted and twice-exceptional kids. 


Links And Resources From Today’s Show:

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The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True SelfLiteracy Strategies for Gifted and Accelerated Readers: A Guide for Elementary and Secondary School EducatorsRaising Creative Kids: A Collection of Simple Creativity Prompts for ChildrenRaising Resilient Sons: A Boy Mom's Guide to Building a Strong, Confident, and Emotionally Intelligent FamilyWhy I Love Homeschooling Neurodiverse Kids: 25 Parents Share the Joys & Challenges of Educating Their Kids Who Have ADHD, Autism, Dyslexia, Giftedness, or Are Otherwise Differently WiredDifferent By Design Learning: Strength Based Learning Plan WorkbookHomeschooling Your Child With Special Needs: Practical Support And Encouragement For Learning With DifferencesThe 39 Clues Series Complete Collection Books 1 - 11 Box SetHarry Potter Paperback Box Set (Books 1-7)



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